Long Distance Love - Here's The Plan When You're Apart

Download here: http://bit.ly/YFw6kL

Long Distance Love - Here's The Plan When You're Apart
Long Distance Love - Here's The Plan When You're Apart AœI took hundreds of hours of research working with real couples and created a powerful, step-by-step AœCommunication BlueprintA that FIRES-UP your passion SUPERCHARGES your love and MELTS THE MILES between you.A If youA™re ready to ELIMINATE the anxiety, self-doubt, loneliness, and FEAR that DESTROYS long-distance relationships and begin a fun NEW LIFE together, then read on... Dear Friend, ITA™S BRUTAL! YouA™re in a wonderful relationship. You have so much in common. And you canA™t wait to be with each other next. One small problem: YouA™re HUNDREDS, even THOUSANDS of miles apart! ARGH! Whether itA™s school jobs family... whatever the annoying fact remains: YOU CANA™T BE WITH EACH OTHER! Yet, you love this person. YouA™re convinced theyA™re worth waiting for. And youA™re confident that you can make it work. (Although sometimes a little doubt might creep in.) Still, youA™re likely experiencing a CRAZY ROLLER COASTER of emotions! You Are NOT Alone! Millions of people in LDRA™s (Long Distant Relationships) feel just like you do right now, both men AND women! For example DO YOU FEEL so anxious and desperate to see and talk to your partner that when you get togetherA”after weeks or months apartA”you find yourself saying stupid, uptight things that just drive him or her awayb DO YOU FEEL so needy or dependent on your partner for YOUR emotional well-being that it makes them want to run awayb DO YOU FEEL like your emotions start to go CRAZY at even the THOUGHT of your love spending time and enjoying himself without you around other members of the opposite sexb DO YOU FEEL overjoyed to see your partner again then find yourself fighting and bickering over stupid little thingsb DO YOU FEEL sometimes that you wish you never got emotionally attached and maybe it would be easier to just walk away than try to overcome your doubts and fearsb DO YOU FEEL so lonely sometimes that you think about hooking up with that attractive man or womanA”just this one time! A“then beat yourself up mentally for days or weeks afterb Have you ever had any of these feelingsb I bet you have! LISTEN: If youA™re like I was when I was involved in a long-distance relationship, then youA™ve experienced at least some of these feelings over and over again! In fact, it seems like just yesterday that I was in the same situation youA™re in right now, a long-distance relationship. So I know EXACTLY what youA™re going through! But do you know the WORST partb Knowing that youA™re probably screwing up the best thing that ever happened to youA”and that you have no idea how to NOT screw it up. INCREDIBLE! I never thought it would happen to MEA”a professional relationship counselor! But... alas... it did Hello, my name is Bob Grant. IA™m a therapist and a Licensed Professional Counselor. IA™ve also been a relationship coach for over 20 years. During my professional career, IA™ve helped hundreds of men and women find and achieve more rewarding, satisfying, relationships. In fact, IA™ve become known as, AœThe Relationship DoctorA by my clients and friends. I have a very successful practice in Atlanta helping my clients keep their love alive, strengthen existing relationships, or rekindling that old spark. So youA™d think I would be the LAST person to be blindsided by the roller-coaster of emotions that come along with being in a long-distance relationship! WRONG! It was brutal! But like you, IA™m only human. So while living in Atlanta, Georgia, I met the woman I KNEW I wanted to spend the rest of my life with. Oh, boy I was giddy with happiness! (You know the feeling, rightb!) There was just one small problem The love of my lifeA”my soul mateA”owned a thriving business on the other side of the country! OUCH! Worse, I had a busy counseling practice I just couldnA™t leave. So there we were madly in love separated by 2,500 long, lonely miles. I was depressed. There was NO WAY either of us would consider ending the relationship, though. We were too much in love. But to say the next six months were tough, is an understatement! Whew it wasnA™t easy. I wanted to be with her so bad it was killing me. Almost immediately, it seemed, there were awkward silences and tensions between us whenever we saw each other. ItA™s so strange! We were always so RELAXED together. Now for some reason we tippy-toed around certain subjects. Or worse we found ourselves FIGHTING about STUPID little things that we both knew didnA™t matter one bit. Fact was, I knew we WOULD NOT survive as a couple IF WE DIDNA™T FIGURE THIS OUT! It wasnA™t easy. We both made dumb mistakes. It was a painful trial and error! THE GOOD NEWSb We got through it! And now, 12 years and 4 wonderful kids later, I can say it was definitely worth the struggle! However IA™m not sure we would have succeeded IF we hadnA™t had a plan. And thatA™s the part that REALLY sucked. AœWhy Is This So HardbA Even with all my education and all my years of professional experience I was no closer to understanding the challenges of a long-distance relationship than anyone else. One day I started to wonder AœWhy is this so HARD for most couplesbA I mean, sure, I missed her terribly. It was hard enough to get up every day go to work pay the bills and come home to a house without her. (ItA™s the lonely part and not knowing what she was doing that killed me!) But that was just PART of the problem. I realized that I hadnA™t been dealing with the emotions that were going on INSIDE me. And sure, I tried not to fight when we were together, or interrogate her about who she spent her time with when I wasnA™t there. But the question that kept coming up for me was: AœWhy is it so hard to deal with these things we have going on INSIDE like insecurity, fear, jealousy, and other psychological challengesbA Well, one of the answers that I came up with is interesting. And itA™s something that I think might help YOU deal with some of these same challenges The Shockingly Simple Secret That Changed Everything for Me (And how it will help YOU, too) IA™m about to offer you some hard-earned wisdom as one friend to another. The answer to my problem was astonishingly simple but it took me a L-O-N-G time to figure out. You see, when I started trying to solve my own relationship problems, I always began by focusing on the problem itself. Makes sense, rightb Deal with the problem while the problem is happening. This was wrong Wrong WRONG! Because I discoverd that when it comes to long-distance relationship issues, if you just AœsolveA the problem in the moment youA™re not SOLVING the problem! ThatA™s because the next time youA™re in the same situation, the SAME PROBLEM comes up again and you play mental games to AœfixA it... until the next time and the next and the next. (Does this sound familiarb) Then I had this simple realization: Instead of trying to deal with each individual problem as it happened I would get far BETTER RESULTS if I knew what to expect before I had the problem in the first place! Instead of dealing with my out-of-control emotions after I was in the situation (already out of control!), I needed to arm myself with knowledge and MAKE A PLAN so IA™d be prepared. This one simple shift in thinking helped me keep my emotions under control, and ultimately SAVED MY RELATIONSHIP. (No kidding.) WhatA™s more, the lessons I learned throughout the process have helped make my marriage the strong, vibrant, and wonderfully close relationship it is today many years later! Fix the IMPORTANT Things All the AœOther StuffA Will Fix Themselves This new mindset allowed me to see that couples in long-distance relationships DIDNA™T have to make the same mistakes I didA”and which most people do. IF youA™re prepared for the major challenges IF you know what youA™re going to do BEFORE you have a problem then many of your problems will AUTOMATICALLY solve themselves! The thing is, every long-distance relationship has very similar challenges. So itA™s not the CHALLENGES that create the problemsA”itA™s how each person REACTS to the challenges. Human beings are complex, and we donA™t come with instruction manuals. So one of the most important things you can do is realize that you donA™t have to Aœfigure it outA on your own. If you want your relationship to succeed, itA™s crucial that you find an expert source of information and use it. You donA™t need a psychology degree, and you donA™t need years of therapy, and you donA™t need to spend thousands of dollars. All you need to know is where to start. ThatA™s where I can help you. Right now. Because until now, no one put together complete information to help improve and save your long-distance relationship. This was one of my biggest frustrations there just wasnA™t a comprehensive guide for addressing all of the problems you face. Well, fortunately that problem is in the PAST Because IA™m Going to Help You Strengthen Your Relationship (No matter what AœconditionA itA™s in right now) FACT: I had the same experiences that youA™re going through now. I made the same mistakes youA™re making now. And just like you, I struggled to make sense of it all. And through my journey I became an expert in the area of long-distance relationships that helped me save my relationship and now you can save your relationship with my personal guide, Long-Distance Love: Secrets to Surviving the Distance Apart. Retail Price $67 Only $47 If youA™re struggling with the painful issues that most couples in long-distance relationships face, my no-nonsense, tell-it-like-it-is guide is like an answer to your prayers. And IA™ll tell you more about it in a minute. But first I want you to understand something: HereA™s the REAL Reason Long-Distance Relationships FAIL (And What You MUST Do to Save Yours) ITA™S SAD! But most couples in a long-distance relationship are trying to make it work using the limited knowledge they have. ItA™s like trying to find your way through the wilderness without a map. No matter how far you walk how many times you check the sun youA™re still LOST wandering in CIRCLES and getting more and more FRUSTRATED! In my counseling practice, IA™ve seen scores of people making this same mistake. ItA™s really sad. Fact is, the distance between you and your love can reveal the strengths and weaknesses in your partnership. And even though you CANA™T control the circumstances of your separation (job, family, etc.) you STILL have the power to control your relationship! Let me explain HereA™s the AœMissing LinkA to Long-Distance Relationship Success LISTEN: If youA™re having a problem in your relationshipA”even if it doesnA™t seem serious yetA”it isnA™t going to Aœsolve itself.A Nope. The pieces arenA™t going to just Aœfall into place.A And ultimatelyA”unfortunatelyA”youA™ll NOT have the close, loving relationship you once did unless you DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT NOW. (Problems, left alone, donA™t solve themselves.) Truth is, most couples wonA™t make it and theyA™ll go their entire lives wondering what might have been.
Fortunately, it DOESNA™T have to be this way for YOU. How to SMASH THROUGH the Barriers Keeping You From the Relationship You Desire Right Now and for the Rest of Your Life If youA™re ready to finally get your relationship solid and healthy again and say AœGOODBYEA to the problems and issues that can sabotage you as a couple I have some fantastic news for you After many years of counseling hundreds of couplesA”many of them dealing with saving their long-distance relationshipsA”I always thought someone needed boil down all the most effective techniques and put them into one powerful manual that readers could use on their ownA”without having to visit and pay counselor. (ThereA™s a limit as to how many people I can help in person!) This manual had to be all meat and potatoes. No fluff. No filler. Just tested tips and techniques that really work. A simple, understandable, and DO-able way to take the best of scientific researchA”and everything I learned in countless counseling sessionsA”and create easy-to-implement tools to deal with the long-distance relationship issues that can really drive you nuts, such as Loneliness Frustration Anxiety Depression Doubt And letA™s not forget the particularly nasty one: JEALOUSY! But I couldnA™t find anything that even began to Aœput it all together.A The Discovery of Something Amazing So over the next few months, I had several interesting conversations with men and women who were involved in a LDRA™s. During these conversations, I quickly realized that surviving a long-distance separation was really a matter of systematically applying some basic, but VITAL principles whether the partners were together OR apart. It was about taking REAL SCIENCE adding REAL EXPERIENCE and putting these incredibly POWERFUL TECHNIQUES into practice. Hey, IA™ve been studying psychology for over 20 years yet as soon as I applied these techniques and tactics to my own relationship, the results astounded even me! IA™ve been looking for a system like this for a LONG time Finally I had a unique, no B.S. way to take complex psychological concepts and turn them into easy-to-understand methods that a 5th grader could understand and implement. I knew at that point that I had to share this knowledge. The result is my information-packed guide, Long-Distance Love: Secrets to Surviving the Distance Apart , uniquely designed for the special challenges that long-distance couples (like you and your partner) now face. AœThank goodness I found your book! My boyfriend and Iwere separated for over 6 months and the informationprovided in 'Long Distance Love' literally saved my relationship. The insights about understanding your 'love trigger' were amazing. Even though our time apart, at times, could be extremely stressful, your book helped each of us to better understand each other, and gave us the tools needed to keep our relationship strong. We are still together and doing great!A Emma Sacramento, CA Retail Price $67 Only $47 I Teach You How to Press the AœResetA Button Recharge Your Long-Distance Relationship (No Matter What Happened In the Past) In this extraordinary guide, youA™ll learn how to use the AœrecipeA for LDR success pinpoint the specific problems that are threatening your relationship and figure out EXACTLY how to fix them quickly. YOUA™LL LEARN how to (finally!) eliminate negative experiences from your past and use them to create positive pointers for the present and a noticeably more fulfilling future. YOUA™LL CONQUER your inner psychological Aœdemons,A and replace them with a solid confidence in your partner that your out-of-sight partner is behaving in ways that supportA”not damageA”your relationship. YOUA™LL LEARN how to turn anxiety, fear, loneliness, anger, frustration, jealousy, and doubt into a thing of the past and replace them with the secure knowledge that you know exactly what to do when most any relationship challenge arises. In fact IF YOUA™VE TRIED everything to solve your long-distance relationship problems and you still canA™t get a handle on what your real problems are and how to solve them Long-Distance Love was written for YOU. IF YOUA™RE FEELING powerless over the situation cut off, trapped, or hopeless if you feel like youA™ve lost control of your relationship and you want it back Long-Distance Love is especially for YOU. IF YOUA™RE TIRED of feeling rejected, emotionally vulnerable, or lonely and you want to break free of the chains of insecurity and rediscover what it feels like to love full-out, with total confidence that youA™re not simply being an optimistic fool, then Long-Distance Love is especially for YOU. Honestly, you could spend years (and hundreds of dollars) in gut-wrenching, soul-searching psychotherapy trying to figure out the issues and make these changes. But with the tested and proven techniques I reveal in Long-Distance Love, you can become your own personal counselor in just a few short hoursA”only as long as it takes you to read it. And thatA™s just a tiny sample of what Long-Distance Love: Secrets to Surviving the Distance Apart A can do for you. After you download my guide, simplyset aside a few minutes each day. Read just two or three pages whatever your time allows. Try one or two techniques. See the difference they make in how you feel how you see your partner and what you think about your relationship. I promise youA™ll be shocked at the difference these simpleA”but powerfulA”mental tools make in your life. Starting On Day 1, YouA™ll Discover: The # 1 mistake that couples in long-distance relationships make and how it all but guarantees your relationship will FAIL. (This is one of those incredibly obvious mistakes that will make you slap yourself for not realizing it sooner!) How to patch up the holes in your relationship FOR GOOD and build a rock-solidfoundation of confidence that all loving couples AœfeelA whether theyA™re physically together or not. A FASCINATING way to increase your natural AœintuitiveA abilities with your partner practically overnight so you do the things that make them feel MORE attracted to you subconsciously. You HATE it when your partner has to leave again so why do you always seem to have your worst fights just before you have to say AœGoodbyebA Read the surprising truth on page 21. Why human nature can actually PREVENT you from having a successful long-distance relationship and what you absolutely must do to overcome your Aœbad programmingA and start enjoying the loving relationship you deserve. Retail Price $67 Only $47 The surprising truth about the REAL reasons why so many long-distance relationships are doomed from the start. Learn this ONE thing, and you can avoid making the terrible mistakes that other couples are making this very moment. How to transform your time apart so it seems to pass quicker, easier and even make it fun! Sound crazyb Just try this clever suggestion on page 23 and youA™ll be a believer! The WORST way to talk to your partner when theyA™re far away. More fights and hurt feelings result from using this unhealthy (but popular) method of communication than any other. HereA™s what to do instead. Ready to throw in the towelb WAIT! Try this 1-step exercise on page 7 and see if this is really the right decision or a giant mistake that youA™ll regret for years to come. Understand exactly how youA™re letting your emotions control your actions and how to turn this behavior into one that will work FOR, not against you. Is your long-distance relationship just a way for one or both of you to avoid commitmentb Hmmm. My no-punches-pulled checklist on page 29 will tell you if youA™re just kidding yourselfA”or if being apart really is unavoidable. Why she Aœphones so oftenA and he AœdoesnA™t call enough.A Men and women ARE different, and so are their expectations. Learn how to accept the differences and use them to make your partner fall more deeply in love with you. Do you ever feel like youA™re just too AœsensitiveA or overwhelmed or just donA™t know what to dob First, relax. Then use this no-nonsense technique on page 12. It will help you clear your head and make the right choice. (This one technique alone is worth the price of this guide. Yes, really.) Learn how a simple shift in your attitude can stop doubts and negative emotions from sending your relationship into a destructive death spiral. When you finally see each other, does it sometimes seem like you have NOTHING to talk aboutb ItA™s crazy, rightb Well, hereA™s why it happens and the surprisingly simple quick fix. An almost AœmagicalA technique you can use to avoid destructive fights and misunderstandings and make your partner feel like YOU are the ONLY ONE in the world who truly understands them. The ULTIMATE way to build fiery passion and anticipation. Do this, and youA™ll have the BEST SEX when you see each other! Chapter 3 reveals exactly how to make your partner excited to see you again. Do you save up the dayA™s events to tell your partner at the end of the dayb You might be unwittingly creating pressure on your mate when you do so. Find out why on page 16 3 simple, but incredibly powerful words every couple should say to each other, yet seldom do. Yet these are words your partner is longing to hear you say. (Hint: ItA™s NOT AœI love youA) Do you know the 5 AœLove LanguagesbA Learn to speak to your partner in their special Love Language and theyA™ll never want to be anywhere except in YOUR arms. (Yes, it really works.) Ladies: Do you know how to create that special, unique bond with your manb Most women think they do, but 90% of them are wrong, Wrong, WRONG! Read page 17 to find out how YOU can be Aœthe only woman in the worldA for HIM. AœThis is a great book! Thanks for writing something that is so helpful when me and my husband are separated for months at a time!A Jennifer Tallahassee, FL Retail Price $67 Only $47 But thatA™s not all. I also teach you: The secrets of a fulfilling and loving relationshipA”what MUST happen to keep BOTH OF YOU from screwing it up. An easy facial exercise lets your partner know how much you love themA”even when they canA™t see you! ItA™s SO simpleA”yet so few of us ever think about using it! (See page 26.) What to do when your partner is acting distant not calling you back or becoming upset when you innocently ask what theyA™ve been doing. DonA™t miss page 26, or you risk killing your relationship with subconscious resentment. A sure sign that itA™s not your insecurities playing tricks with your head. And that it may be time to reassess the relationship. (See page 27.) The ONE thing that ultimately matters in your long-distance relationship. This one thing will predictA”with uncanny accuracyA”whether youA™ll be truly happy together. (It has NOTHING to do with how long youA™re apart.) How to become your own love coach with the confidence and ability to guide your relationship through stressful times and emerge stronger than ever. How to avoid letting the emotions you feel when youA™re apart cause you to make STUPID mistakes that push your partner away. (If youA™ve ever had problems holding on to the Aœkeepers,A itA™s probably because you didnA™t do this one simple thing.) Being apart can be emotionally exhausting. Keep your love batteries Aœfully chargedA using these simple techniques on page 28. How to eliminate all possibility of the other person Aœpulling your stringsA and take total control of your emotional and internal states no matter what the situation in your relationship. (You really need to learn this one.) A common misunderstanding that dooms 99% of all long-distance relationships permanently yet is surprisingly easy to reverse. (When you know the secret.) A proven way to AœblockA negative emotions from influencing your thoughts so YOU are ALWAYS in charge of the way you feel. How to quickly get over hurt feelings and petty misunderstands and stop letting them affect your behavior with your partner NOW even if itA™s been haunting you for months. How to eliminate the Aœup and downA rollercoaster of feelings that often comes with long-distance relationships and create a path of CONSISTENT results. How to avoid starting a fight over things you KNOW you should let slide off your back. (Imagine how this one technique couldA”by itselfA”save your relationship!) What to do when youA™re tired of waiting. WARNING: This extremely effective step-by-step technique on page 34 can move your relationship forward to the next level, BUT it can backfire! Please use with caution. How to eliminate the life-sucking trap of AœenablingA your partner. (Most people donA™t realize this is single biggest cause of break-ups.) How to be independent in a long-distance relationship in a way that makes your partner more attracted to you instead of making them doubt you. Why your brain can actually be your worst enemy when it comes to Aœthinking things through.A PLUS a much better way to use your smarts to zero in on what makes your partner tick and please them like no one else can. The best way to avoid Aœlosing your coolA when you need to talk about the relationship. And how to make sure youA™re taken seriously. The best partb Your partner will respect you MORE and find you MORE attractive every time you do this one trick. (I want you to contact me after using this technique and let me know how it went. I know youA™ll be absolutely thrilled with how it works.) How to identify EXACTLY what you want from your relationship and what might get in the way. (This dramatically helps ensure your success.) Retail Price $67 Only $47 As you can see Long-Distance Love: Secrets to Surviving the Distance Apart is a treasure trove of invaluable knowledge. Yet everything youA™ll learn is refreshingly easy to put into practice. Unlike other AœprogramsA this is NOT one of those empty AœmotivationalA programs that creates no permanent, lasting change. On the contrary Long-Distance Love: Secrets to Surviving the Distance Apart: ADDRESSES the AœinnerA issues that are sabotaging your long-distance relationship TELLS YOU the specific steps for pinpointing and eliminating the things that are destroying the happiness you deserve, and EMPOWERS YOU to create a dynamic new and intimate connection between you and your partner. No bull. If youA™re struggling with issues that are preventing your relationship from achieving its full potential, this program will show you how to completely banish them from your life FOR GOOD and youA™ll start to see results the first time you put these techniques into practice. I Teach You How to Quickly and Easily Restore Repair and Rekindle Your Relationship Before ItA™s Too Late The good news is: every long-distance relationship problem has a solution, and youA™ll be able to solve yours with the tools I give you in Long-Distance Love: Secrets to Surviving the Distance Apart. For example IF YOUR RELATIONSHIP is already in trouble, Long-Distance Love will equip you with the knowledge you need to develop a plan to restore closeness and trust, and rejuvenate your love quickly before itA™s lost forever. IF YOUR RELATIONSHIP needs just a little boost, Long-Distance Love gives you new ways to psychologically reduce the miles between you and rekindle your passion for each other. Fact is, thereA™s a very good chance that Long-Distance Love contains THE ONE BIG KEY you need to have the relationship success you want and deserve. And I want you to have it but only if itA™s right for you. 10 Reasons Why Long-Distance Love Is Different From Everything Else Out There Before you decide whether or not Long-Distance Love: Secrets to Surviving the Distance Apart A is for you I want to tell you why itA™s different from all the other AœrelationshipA guides on the market. REASON #1: The content is created SPECIFICALLY to help long-distance couples Sure, there are a lot of Aœself-helpA books and programs on the market. But NONE of them have been designed with the single purpose of helping couples in long-distance relationships deal with their unique challenges and problems. IA™ve spent over 20 years learning the science of psychology and behavior, and I want to help YOU develop POWERFULLY effective behaviors that will nurture your love and help your relationship succeed. ThatA™s why I put enormous amounts of personal time and energy into creating an easy-to-follow guide that equips you to deal with your long-distance relationship issues as quickly and easily as possible. I personally guarantee that youA™ll not find ANYTHING else available that is even CLOSE to Long-Distance Love. (In a few minutes IA™m going to back up this guarantee and make you an offer youA™d be crazy to refuse.) REASON #2: This program was created by a professional relationship counselor who SPECIALIZES in helping couples overcome their AœinnerA issues to become more successful in their relationship and in their lives. Most of the people selling Aœself-helpA and psychology books are Aœgeneralists.A The stuff they sell is typically general and vague because itA™s designed to help a broad range of people. Because of this, itA™s usually Aœwatered downA and of only limited help. However, I SPECIALIZE in relationship counseling. I have a thriving professional practive in Atlanta, Georgia helping hundreds of individuals and couples. ThatA™s why I created Long-Distance Love. To help you fix relationship issues. To dramatically increase your chances of success in YOUR relationship. REASON #3: Long-Distance Love is a condensed, high-impact, AœBest of the BestA when it comes to improving your long-distance relationship. ThatA™s why you wonA™t find a long-winded narrative thatA™s heavy on fluff stupid stories and light on substance. No. Instead, youA™ll find a compact synthesis of the best relationship knowledge ever discovered from many different schools of research and an easy-to-use menu of tips and tools that will help you get results in your situation. I GUARANTEE that you wonA™t find a more powerful, more condensed, more USEFUL set of tools and techniques SPECIFICALLY designed for couples in a long-distance relationship, anywhere REASON #4: Long-Distance Love: Secrets to Surviving the Distance Apart is created by someone who has been EXACTLY where you are now, and used these EXACT methods to save and strengthen his own long-distance relationship. One of the things I hate about most Aœself-helpA manuals is that they are based on unproven theory. That is NOT the case with my guide. Everything youA™ll find in Long-Distance Love is knowledge that I knowA”from personal experienceA”REALLY WORKS. YouA™ll instantly realize that itA™s easier to learn and easier to apply because everything is based on tools and techniques that work in real life, not fairy-tale land. Every concept and every technique has been successfully used by ordinary people, just like you, in your situation. This one fact alone makes the information youA™re going to learn many times more valuable than those generic relationship manuals. REASON #5: Long-Distance Love teaches you exercises and tools that youA™ll actually use and apply. Many Aœself-helpA programs are based on academic theory, and recommend techniques that can take years for you to see even miniscule results. Who has the time to play around when your relationship is at stakeb In Long-Distance Love, I give you tools and exercises that you can IMMEDIATELY apply in REAL LIFE situationsA� and experience the benefits first-hand. And by the time youA™ve finished reading it, youA™ll have LEARNED more about yourself and your relationship LEARNED more about what makes both of you AœtickA LEARNED more about how youA™re similar LEARNED more about how to resolve your differences, and LEARNED more than you ever thought possible. BOTTOM LINEb YouA™ll be more confident about your ability to handles the stresses of a long-distance relationship, and how to use the time apart to bring you even closer together. Most of all, youA™ll learn how to build a solid foundation of trust, respect, passion, and friendship with your partner that will last a lifetime. AœBob thanks so much for this book! ItA™s been wonderful to know what to do during those times when IA™m worried our relationship wonA™t make it. Being able to remind myself of how to talk on the phone to get closer to each other has saved us more than once. Cyndi Lawrenceville, GA Retail Price $67 Only $47 REASON #6: My program is focused on helping you solve your long-distance relationship issues at the HEART. Because youA™ve read this far, youA™re aware enough to know that mere AœtricksA will NEVER solve relationship issues, even if youA™re not in a long-distance relationship. They CANA™T. The reason I created Long-Distance Love: Secrets to Surviving the Distance Apart is because relationship issues must be addressed at the HEART. Lasting changes in a relationship must come from INSIDE not from the outside. Make senseb In fact, once you apply the information I teach you, your partner will start to respond more positively AUTOMATICALLY. And as you master the different concepts, techniques and tools, your entire relationship will improve in ways you never dreamed possible. (And thatA™s not hype, either. ItA™s the results of years of in-the-trenches research helping hundreds of couples turn their loves lives around.) REASON #7: Everything youA™re going to learn is MORAL, ETHICAL and FEELS GOOD to use. In my professional and personal life, I live by one simple code: You donA™t have to be unethical or dishonest to be successful. In fact, I believe when you strive to be more honest and ethical, your chances of achieving lasting success and happiness are assured. Do you feel the same wayb ThatA™s why everything youA™ll find in Long-Distance Love: Secrets to Surviving the Distance Apart A is based on psychological and inter-personal concepts that FEEL RIGHT to learn and use. ItA™s not necessary to AœtrickA your partner into being with you. In fact, thatA™s the most damaging ting you can do to your relationship. Instead, I teach you how to build a lifetime of passion, commitment and trust HONESTLY and in a way that feels good for BOTH of you. REASON #8: Long-Distance Love takes on the super AœthornyA relationship issues without flinching and tackles them openly to get RESULTS. When I was in my own long-distance relationship (with the woman who became, and is now, my wonderful wife), I wasted so much time spinning my wheels with things that didnA™t work. So I wonA™t waste your time. Because I know you may be hurting right now and need results fast. I wonA™t Aœtalk downA to you or dance around the real issues. Together, weA™ll address timeless, tough relationship problems like insecurity, fear, and anxiety. WeA™ll look at these relationship-destroying emotions directly, and youA™ll learn techniques to effectively blast those negative emotions out of your mind, body, and your relationship. IA™m serious about this I want to help you enjoy a more positive long-distance relationship RIGHT NOW. ThatA™s why, if youA™re not ready to confront your own issues directly if youA™re not ready to make a sincere effort to transform your relationship into something amazing if you donA™t truly believe you should be in the best relationship of your life right now then my guide is not for you. Really. ItA™s powerful, life-changing Aœmedicine,A but itA™s not for the uncommitted or the faint-of-heart. REASON #9: Long-Distance Love teaches you how to become personally stronger, and more emotionally content. I believe that if you feel strong, self-confident, and emotionally content youA™ll NATURALLY have better relationships. (Makes sense, doesnA™t itb) Because, letA™s be honest here: You want to improve your long-distance relationship so you can ENJOY your life moreA”rightb So why not learn how to do BOTH at the same timeb IA™ll show you exactly how. How to deal with personal issues so youA™re more centered and content and ENJOY your life more and how to use your new knowledge to recharge your love life. REASON #10: You are going to discover how to have the kind of relationship you REALLY want. HereA™s a little known AœsecretA: Most couples are VERY FRUSTRATED with their relationship. It doesnA™t matter if the couple is in a long-distance relationship, or not. FOR EXAMPLE if you listen to a group of women talking, the conversation will almost always turn to MEN. More specifically, whatA™s WRONG with the man theyA™re with. Sound familiarb And if you listen to a group of men talking about the women theyA™re involved with, the conversation sounds much the sameA”except itA™s about whatA™s wrong with the WOMEN theyA™re with. Sometimes, you have to wonder how people ever get into a relationship at all! But these conversations bring out one very important point: If you want to HAVE and KEEP a quality relationship, then you have to be AœrealA with each other. Tricks and games might start a spark but they wonA™t keep a fire burning. (Read that last sentence again.) So hereA™s the ultimate purpose of Long-Distance Love: To help you TRANSFORM your relationship into the QUALITY relationship you deserve the kind of relationship that a REAL man or woman wants to stay in even when you have to spend time apart. Retail Price $67 Only $47 Order Long-Distance Love: Secrets to Surviving the Distance Apart and Transform Your Separation Challenges Into the BEST Relationship of Your Life! Long-Distance Love condenses hundreds of hours worth of my professional expertise. I could easily put it in a fancy, expensive binder and load it with lots of extras add all kinds of useless AœbonusesA (youA™ve seen those silly websites) tack on shipping costs and charge 10x more. But thatA™s not me. I donA™t work that way. IA™m a relationship counselor, not a slick marketer. So for just a fraction of what a professional relationship therapist would charge for a one-time consultation, youA™ll get years of hands-on professional expertise delivered to you in seconds. In fact, if you wanted to schedule in-person counseling with me, youA™d spend $150 for every 45-minute session. After several weeks of counseling, you'd probably have spent thousands of dollars. Truth is, in some cases, in-person sessions are definitely the way to go. But for long-distance relationship challenges, thereA™s a great alternative that I GUARANTEE will work for you in the comfort of your own home. For less than dinner and a movie, you can get access right now to priceless knowledge you can use right away to improve your long-distance relationship. And this low price also comes with my better-than-money-back, AœI Take All the RiskA Guarantee PLUS, when you order before midnight tonight, YouA™ll Receive My Powerful, No-Punches-Pulled Guide AœCouples In CrisisA A $67 Value Yours Free ITA™S A FACT! Almost 50% of all couples will have a relationship crisis serious enough for them to seek some form of marriage counseling sooner or later in their relationship. BUT DID YOU KNOW that over 75% of couples that do have relationship counseling later report that theyA™re WORSE off or no longer together less than a year laterb Argh. Can you imagine how disappointing that would beA”to spend all that time and money on counselingA”only to find that youA™ve gotten no closer to solving your problemsb Truth is you might even be worse off than when you started! The good news is you donA™t have to waste time and money sitting in an office. My powerful guide Couples in Crisis is your guide to facing and resolving the tensions in your relationship, no matter how old, or how deep. Couples in Crisis gives you a simple, easy-to-follow system to save or restore your relationship, and bring love and tenderness back into your lives. Couples in Crisis teaches you how to address your problems neutralize negative emotions that are blocking you from finding a solution and begin to relate to your spouse or partner in new and more positive ways. YouA™ll learn ways to Aœstop the bleeding,A restore the connection, revitalize intimacy, and renew your passion. And hereA™s the best part you WONA™T have dig into your past or practice communication AœexercisesA or Aœaccept blame.A Instead, youA™ll quickly learn How small, simple daily actions bring you back together and build lasting love. How to stop dwelling on the past and give your future a real chance (this works no matter if one, or both of you have messed up). How to stop pulling apart A“ and start working as a team again. Are you watching your relationship circle down the drainb Doing this one thing will definitely kill any chance of reconciliation. The two PRIMARY causes of relationship stress A“ and how to handle either one without losing your mind. How to getA”and giveA”the RIGHT sort of attention and affection How to deal with a partner who doesnA™t want to talkA”and get them to open up to you. The very FIRST thing you need to do when you KNOW your relationship is in trouble. If you donA™t do this, youA™ll sabotage your efforts right from the start. How to quickly snap out of self-destructive patterns of behavior and replace them with new relationship-affirming actions. When NOT Aœtalking about itA is the best decision for you both. How to talk so your partner will truly listen. How to listen so your partner will WANT to talk. How to break the painful silences between youA”and how to get the timing right. If you know your relationship is in trouble, making this common mistake will sabotage every effort you make to fix it. HereA™s what to do instead Why adversity can be the BEST thing that ever happened to you as a couple A”and how to use it to bring you closer, not push you apart. Warning signs that your relationship could be headed towards crisis! How to Aœturn back the clockA BEFORE you get into trouble. If you want your relationship to succeed, NEVER do THIS. It will kill your love and passion stone-cold faster than anything else! Why sometimes the best thing you can do for your relationship is ignoreA”yes, IGNORE A”your problems. They wonA™t go away, but hereA™s what will happen instead HeA™s wrong sheA™s wrong. Guess whatb YouA™re BOTH Aœright!A HereA™s what you need to understand to communicate as equals. The seven-day plan to get you through any crisis. When youA™re overwhelmed with whatA™s happening right now, use these steps to get your relationship back on track. Why every Aœproblem solvingA conversation becomes a fight. Most important, what to do to stop fights and start communicating. Is it time to quit the relationshipb This simple test will tell you if itA™s worth working on your problemsA”or if youA™re doomed to fail. Ladies: When AœTalking it outA makes him shut down, doing this one simple thing can help him open up. New routines to banish the stress and bring the fun and romance back to your relationship. The #1 AœLife SkillA that predicts whether your love will survive a crisis. (DonA™t worry if you donA™t have this skill itA™s quick, simple, and easy to do.) Retail Price $67 Only $47 And thatA™s not all The regular price of Long-Distance Love: Secrets to Surviving the Distance Apart is $67. ThatA™s less than 20AˆA¼ a day for a year of life-changing information. But times are tough, I know. And I donA™t want a few dollars to stop you from reaping the rewards. So hereA™s special offer thatA™s good for a limited time:A� Take $20 Off When You Order Before Midnight Tonight: As a special promotional offer, IA™m going to take $20.00 off the regular purchase price of $67 when you order todayA” before midnight tonight, Pacific Standard Time. Just click on the button in the form below, and youA™ll get instant access to your personal copy of Long-Distance Love: Secrets to Surviving the Distance Apart, including the hard-hitting bonus guideA”Couples In CrisisA”absolutely FREE (a $67 value) all with my 60 day guarantee of complete satisfaction. AœThank goodness I found your book! My boyfriend and Iwere separated for over 6 months and the informationprovided in Long Distance Love literally saved my relationship. The insights about understanding your A˜love triggerA™ were amazing. Even though our time apart, at times, could be extremely stressful, your book helped each of us to better understand each other, and gave us the tools needed to keep our relationship strong. We are still together and doing great!A Emma Sacramento, CA Retail Price $67 Only $47 Remember, you risk nothing. Just check it out. You have 60 days to examine Long-Distance Love and put the knowledge to work for you. And youA™re completely protected by my AœNo-Nonsense, You-Must-Love-It-or-I-Give-You-a-Fast-and-Cheerful-Refund Guarantee.A But Reading this Powerful Guide Is Just the Beginning Because Look at Some of the Benefits YouA™ll Enjoy in Your NEW, REVITALIZED Relationship: Invest just $47 into restoring the love and trust in your long-distance relationship, and you could experience real results as soon as your very next phone call. WhatA™s more You could hear the change in your partnerA™s voice: a softer, more loving tone. (Your key that itA™s really working.) You could feel an increased sexual energy. (How nice to get this back!) You could be pleasantly surprised to discover new and exciting ways to connect your thoughts and feelings. (No more tied tongues. No more Aœwalking on eggshells!A) You could be enjoying the closest, most intimate, and most committed relationship of your life! Retail Price $67 Only $47 Remember, you risk nothing. Just check it out. You have 60 days to examine Long Distance Love and put the knowledge to work for you. And youA™re completely protected by my AœNo-Nonsense, You-Must-Love-It-or-I-Give-You-a-Fast-and-Cheerful-Refund Guarantee.A The simple, actionable information youA™ll find in WhatA™s He Really Thinkingb has already worked for hundreds of men and women of all ages, from all walks of life. Follow my advice and youA™ll reap the rewards. I stake my excellent national reputation on it. Bob Grant, L.P.C. AœThe Relationship DoctorA Bob Grant, L.P.C. P.S. Remember, after you download your copy of Long-Distance Love: Secrets to Surviving the Distance Apart A you have 60 full days to use someA”or allA”of the proven long-distance relationship AœsecretsA revealed to you. IsnA™t it time for you guys to eliminate the stress, anxiety, and strain from your relationship and start having fun againb LifeA™s too short to waste any more time. P.P.S. ItA™s estimated that 7 out of 10 long-distance relationships fail because couples make simple mistakes that could have been easily corrected IF they took action! Do not put this off even one day. If my system doesnA™t work for you, I send your money back and you keep the $67 guide, Couples in Crisis as my thank you. ItA™s just as simple as that. DonA™t let distance and separation destroy your relationship. Take action right now.
Retail Price $67 Only $47